You weren’t asking for too much.
You were just asking the wrong person to give it.
You begged for effort from someone who barely offered consistency.
You poured into a connection that never poured back.
You ignored the red flags because your heart saw potential—not patterns.
But listen closely:
Love that makes you question your worth isn’t love.
Real love doesn’t confuse you, ignore you, or make you beg to be seen.
You deserve a love that feels safe, steady, and soul-deep—
not one that plays tug-of-war with your spirit.
So today, choose you.
Again.
And again.
And again—
until the wrong people no longer feel like home.
The love you deserve begins with the way you love yourself.
Author Bio
Míchelle Annalèise Coles is an author, certified relationship coach, and the founder of Annaleise Affirms LLC, a wellness brand rooted in self-love, healing, and emotional empowerment. She is the voice behind Unapologetically You: The Path to Unshakable Self-Love, a transformative guide for women ready to reclaim their worth and rewrite their narrative. Through her writing and coaching, Míchelle inspires others to break toxic cycles, build meaningful connections, and unapologetically choose themselves. Learn more at www.annaleiseaffirms.com
